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05 Jul

The Authenticity Paradox and the Work of Becoming

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  • In Blog, Self & Personal Growth, VUCA & Leadership
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"Just be yourself" is the worst advice a growing leader can follow. Herminia Ibarra's authenticity paradox explains why growth starts with behavior that feels unnatural, and what 35 years in management and 20 years of coaching confirm: discomfort is the entry fee, not a warning sign.
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27 Jun

Your Strengths Are Why You’re Stuck.

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  • In Blog, Books & Publications, Change & Transformation, Self & Personal Growth, Tools & Methods, Video
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Every senior leader has a signature strength: the thing they're known for, rewarded for, promoted for. It's also, more often than anyone admits, the thing holding them in place. On outsight, endings, and why growth at the top is less about adding a strength than loosening your grip on the one you trust most.
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27 Jun

You Don’t Plan a Career Switch. You Explore One.

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  • In Blog, Change & Transformation, Self & Personal Growth, Tools & Methods, Web Courses & Programs
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Senior leaders are trained to remove uncertainty, yet a career switch resists exactly that. You can't analyse your way into a new identity; you have to explore your way in. Here's how the Pioneer Map and The Expedition guide the senior career pivot — and the theory beneath the method.
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26 Jun

Transactional Analysis for Leaders: The Foundations, and How to Use Them

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  • In Blog, Self & Personal Growth, Teams & Collaboration, Tools & Methods, VUCA & Leadership, Web Courses & Programs
Infographic showing three TA ego states—Parent, Adult, Child—on the left and three leadership actions—Develop, Manage, Stay strategic—on the right, with a central 'A' node labeled Lead from Adult.
A clear, deeper introduction to transactional analysis: where Eric Berne's Parent, Adult, Child model comes from, the psychology of why we shift between stances, how it connects to Kahneman, Rogers, and psychological safety, and how to apply it in everyday leadership.
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11 Jun

You Don’t Have a People Problem. You Have a System.

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  • In Blog, Change & Transformation, Organizations & Culture, Self & Personal Growth, Teams & Collaboration, VUCA & Leadership
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Your team won't take ownership. The same crisis keeps returning. You replaced the problem person and nothing changed. These aren't character flaws — they're the shape of the system you're standing inside. Drawing on three decades in the leadership chair, Jan Salomons on why so much competence produces so little change, and where the shift actually begins.
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07 Jun

Your Stress Profile: A Mirror to Start Mastering Stress

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  • In Blog, Change & Transformation, Download, Organizations & Culture, Self & Personal Growth, Tools & Methods, Web Courses & Programs, Workshops & Events
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"I'm stressed" is true, useless, and where most people stop. This is how I turn that vague sense of pressure into a map you can actually act on, the nine dimensions behind my stress profile, the research they rest on, and how the picture becomes a coping strategy rather than a label.
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29 May

Parent, Adult, Child: The Three Modes You Lead From

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  • In Blog, Self & Personal Growth, Teams & Collaboration, VUCA & Leadership
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Parent Adult Child leadership explains why the mode you default to — Parent, Adult or Child — quietly shapes whether your people grow or stay dependent.
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29 Apr

The Five-Minute Reset: What One Stanford Study Changed About How I Coach

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  • In Blog, Self & Personal Growth, Tools & Methods, Workshops & Events
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A 2023 randomized trial pitted four breathing techniques against each other. The winner takes five minutes a day. Here's what it taught me and how I built it into my coaching practice.
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23 Apr

Leading in the Waiting Room: How to Hold Your Team Together When the Organization Hasn’t Decided Yet on Organizational Changes

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  • In Blog, Change & Transformation, Teams & Collaboration, VUCA & Leadership
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When four of your twelve team members may be made redundant — but nothing is official yet — leadership becomes something different. It becomes the art of holding people together in uncertainty. This post offers six practical principles for leading through the wait: with honesty, focus, differentiation, and the kind of steadiness that people will remember long after the decision is made.
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19 Apr

How One Person Can Change the World

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  • In Blog, Change & Transformation, Self & Personal Growth
How does one person actually change the world? Not through grand gestures, but through shifts in thinking and behavior that ripple outward. This article explores the science behind societal change, from evolutionary psychology to systems thinking. It shows how mental models shape behavior, how small choices scale into cultural shifts, and why institutions tend to follow rather than lead. For leaders, the implication is clear: real change starts with how individuals see their role in the system. When enough people act differently, culture moves—and with it, performance, policy, and outcomes.
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The Authenticity Paradox and the Work of Becoming
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The Authenticity Paradox | Professor Herminia Ibarra 
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Your Strengths Are Why You’re Stuck.
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