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05 Jul

The Authenticity Paradox and the Work of Becoming

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  • In Blog, Self & Personal Growth, VUCA & Leadership
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"Just be yourself" is the worst advice a growing leader can follow. Herminia Ibarra's authenticity paradox explains why growth starts with behavior that feels unnatural, and what 35 years in management and 20 years of coaching confirm: discomfort is the entry fee, not a warning sign.
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27 Jun

The Authenticity Paradox | Professor Herminia Ibarra 

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“Be authentic” — that’s what organizations, brands and people keep being told. But too often, following that advice can limit us, especially at work, says Herminia Ibarra, professor of organizational behavior. She proposes an expansive way to think about authenticity,
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27 Jun

Debunking the Ikigai venn diagram myth

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  • In Blog, Self & Personal Growth
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Discover the true essence of Ikigai—far beyond the popular Venn diagram. Rooted in Japanese culture, Ikigai is about finding joy and purpose in the small, meaningful moments of everyday life. Learn how this concept has been misunderstood and how embracing its authentic meaning can lead to a more fulfilling existence.
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21 Mar

It happened to me — and it changed how I lead forever

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I still remember the moment I lost my cool. The frustration had been building for days, and during a routine meeting with one of my subordinates, I snapped. My words were sharp, my tone unkind, and the look on their face—shock and hurt—was a painful reminder that I’d crossed a line. As leaders, we often pride ourselves on staying composed, but we’re human, too. That day, I learned the hard way that managing others starts with managing yourself. Emotional outbursts can damage trust and relationships, but they can also be a wake-up call for growth. If you’ve faced similar challenges, it’s time to take charge of your emotions and lead with resilience. Let me guide you. Explore my coaching services or...
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18 Oct

The power of vulnerability

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  • In Blog, Self & Personal Growth, Video
Brené Brown’s TED Talk, "The Power of Vulnerability," is a powerful exploration of human connection, courage, and the discomfort we feel when we open ourselves up to others. Brown, a research professor, is known for her work on shame, courage, and vulnerability, and this talk is perhaps her most famous. Here’s a breakdown of its key ideas and why embracing vulnerability is critical, not only in our personal lives but also in leadership.
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