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Self & Personal Growth

27 Jun

Debunking the Ikigai venn diagram myth

  • By salomons.coach
  • In Blog, Self & Personal Growth
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Discover the true essence of Ikigai—far beyond the popular Venn diagram. Rooted in Japanese culture, Ikigai is about finding joy and purpose in the small, meaningful moments of everyday life. Learn how this concept has been misunderstood and how embracing its authentic meaning can lead to a more fulfilling existence.
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09 May

Is It Time to Stay or Move On? Why Regular Career Reflection Makes You a Stronger Leader

  • By salomons.coach
  • In Blog, Self & Personal Growth, VUCA & Leadership
In today’s fast-changing workplace, leaders and teams benefit from regularly reflecting on whether their current environment still supports their energy, growth, and purpose. Using a structured reflection questionnaire, I help leaders gain clarity on what strengthens or drains them — and whether they should stay, adjust, or move on. The same process transforms teams by uncovering hidden dynamics, restoring passion, and realigning people with the mission and vision. This reflective approach boosts engagement, performance, and retention, while preventing silent resignation long before it starts. Reflection isn’t a sign of doubt — it’s a sign of leadership.
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02 May

Are you getting burned-out? Read this!

  • By salomons.coach
  • In Blog, Self & Personal Growth, Video
In today’s fast-paced world, work easily takes center stage in our identity. Inspired by Simone Stolzoff’s “How to Reclaim Your Life from Work,” this reflection exercise helps you rebalance what truly matters. The Circle of You invites you to visualize how your time and energy are divided — and what your ideal balance would look like. By comparing the two, you’ll see where small, meaningful shifts can begin. Your job should support your life, not define it. This exercise helps leaders and professionals take the first practical step toward balance, well-being, and authentic leadership.
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25 Apr

Are You Really the Boss – or Do You Make Others Better?

  • By salomons.coach
  • In Blog, Self & Personal Growth
Leadership isn’t about power, it’s about influence. Discover what *You’re the Boss* by Sabina Nawaz teaches leaders about clarity, feedback, and trust – including a real-life case from the boardroom.
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21 Mar

It happened to me — and it changed how I lead forever

  • By salomons.coach
  • In Blog, Self & Personal Growth
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I still remember the moment I lost my cool. The frustration had been building for days, and during a routine meeting with one of my subordinates, I snapped. My words were sharp, my tone unkind, and the look on their face—shock and hurt—was a painful reminder that I’d crossed a line. As leaders, we often pride ourselves on staying composed, but we’re human, too. That day, I learned the hard way that managing others starts with managing yourself. Emotional outbursts can damage trust and relationships, but they can also be a wake-up call for growth. If you’ve faced similar challenges, it’s time to take charge of your emotions and lead with resilience. Let me guide you. Explore my coaching services or...
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28 Feb

What’s in Your Leadership “Shopping Cart”? Shaping Your Narrative for Growth

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  • In Blog, Self & Personal Growth
What’s in your leadership “shopping cart”? The narratives we tell ourselves shape our identity, decisions, and effectiveness as leaders. This post explores the "Shopping Cart Theory" as a metaphor for self-reflection, highlighting how minor actions reveal deeper leadership qualities. By examining what you carry—accomplishments, fears, or values—you can reshape your story to unlock growth, authenticity, and resilience. Discover how small, conscious choices and a guided coaching process can transform your leadership journey.
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21 Feb

Exponential growth through self-awareness

  • By salomons.coach
  • In Blog, Self & Personal Growth
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Boosting Your Self-Awareness: Free Online Course (60 Minutes) Unlock the power of self-awareness to transform your leadership and personal life! In this dynamic course, you’ll discover how self-awareness enhances decision-making, emotional intelligence, and resilience at work, while also fostering stronger relationships, emotional well-being, and authentic living privately. With practical tools and actionable steps, you’ll learn to reflect effectively and create meaningful change in just 60 minutes. Don’t miss this opportunity to invest in yourself—free until 28-Feb-25. Take the first step toward becoming the best version of yourself today! Enroll Now at salomons.coach
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17 Jan

What Harvard Business Review has really taught us about coaching

  • By salomons.coach
  • In Blog, Books & Publications, Self & Personal Growth
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Over the past decade, Harvard Business Review has shown that coaching is not about fixing people—it's about helping leaders rise. HBR highlights coaching as a collaborative partnership that strengthens self-awareness, emotional intelligence, and the ability to navigate complexity. From executive development to performance and long-term growth, the research is clear: coaching improves leadership behavior, deepens team trust, and creates healthier, more resilient organizations. At its core, effective coaching is built on listening, reflective questioning, aligned goals, and honest accountability—exactly the foundations of modern leadership in a VUCA world.
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13 Dec

Procrastination – breaking through your emotional triggers

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  • In Blog, Self & Personal Growth, Video
Procrastination is a common challenge many face, often leading to stress and decreased productivity. Despite knowing its negative effects, we frequently delay tasks. This behavior is linked to our brain's limbic system, which triggers a "fight, flight, or freeze" response when confronted with stressful tasks, prompting avoidance to alleviate discomfort. To break this cycle, it's essential to address the emotional triggers behind procrastination. Strategies include recognizing these emotional responses, breaking tasks into smaller, manageable steps, setting specific goals and deadlines, and practicing self-compassion. By understanding the emotional and neurological factors contributing to procrastination, we can develop effective strategies to manage it, leading to improved productivity and well-being.
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29 Nov

Crying with Wolves: How Leaders Can Break Free from the Negativity Trap

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  • In Blog, Self & Personal Growth
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Negativity can quietly erode team morale, productivity, and even a leader’s confidence. In this post, I share the story of Nathalie, an operations manager trapped in a cycle of workplace stress and unproductive venting—both in her team meetings and personal life. Together, we explored the psychological roots of negativity, its contagious effects, and strategies to break free. From reframing challenges to fostering constructive team dynamics, this journey reveals how leaders can transform negativity into solutions and growth. If workplace stress and team negativity feel overwhelming, this is your guide to leading with positivity and purpose.
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